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Post by paynesean on Jul 29, 2008 15:52:49 GMT -5
Last Wednesday (July 23rd, 2008) I got married.
We had a very private wedding. Didn't want anything too fancy in considering the judgment seat of Christ; regarding stewardship of finances.
She will be a Biblical keeper AT the home. In contrast to:
1 Tim 5:13 13And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not.
Not some idle woman at home.
Interestingly enough The Bible describes the whorish woman as one who:
Prov 7:11 11(She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
My wife is meek and quiet:
1 Pet 3:1-7 1Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
3Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
5For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
6Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
7Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
She knows how to clean; do dishes and iron.
She knows how to cook quite well.
She will also learn how to sew.
Lord-willing if He blesses us with children she will also homeschool them.
Any other ideas?
Thank you very much.
Praise be to God for blessing me with this wife that I did not deserve.
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Post by John McGlone on Jul 29, 2008 18:44:48 GMT -5
Seek the Lord. Congratulations you two.
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Post by art on Jul 29, 2008 21:19:37 GMT -5
You need to make her carry your signboards when you go street preaching.
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Post by Evan Schaible on Jul 30, 2008 2:39:53 GMT -5
That quote is horrible. No, you need to open every single door, even car doors, and carry her purse for her. Then will I say that you are a man. I made a deal with my wife that she would never touch a doorknob in my presence. Brother, Please, I would counsel you to ignore much of the advice you receive. My wife sews, knits, is a very good cook, and even wears a head covering, but none of that is at my command. In fact, she comes to me for advice on what to wear and things of that nature automatically. A domineering and heavy hand will ruin her and cause her to fear you in an unhealthy way. To command such things will only cause her to acquiesce out of duty rather than love. If you walk in holiness, and lay down your life for her just as Christ laid down His life for the church, then you will be truly be her sanctifier. Don't be an overbearing zealot, if she is sanctified she will automatically obey the Bible in these things. I haven't been married long, but in my study of the issue, and the little experience I have gained and learned from other Godly men, the deepest thing you must learn is to love her unconditionally. Paul Washer has wonderful teaching about marriage. Sermonindex carried his sermons on this topic and they are well worth listening to. Also Denny Kenaston's "Godly Home" series is a must. In fact, I would recommend Denny's above Paul Washer. But if you dont have time to listen to 15 or so sermons, take time out with your wive and listen to "The glory of God in marriage" by Washer. - Evan ApostolicHeritage.org
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Post by art on Jul 30, 2008 4:55:02 GMT -5
Hey , Seanpayne doesn't want a wife by the sound of it, he wants a slave and if she is so willing to go along with that, fine. I'll give the marriage a year or so, tops.
This is what the Bible and Christianity breeds.
I don't know who the new Christian is, posting above, but he is too smart to be one of you all. He makes too much sense.
I doubt seanpayne will listen to him though as he doesn't listen to anyone else, Christian or nonchristian.
This is why I just shake my head at you people. You speak for yourselves better than any critic could. No wonder thinking people hate you all.
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Post by debonnaire on Jul 30, 2008 10:12:54 GMT -5
Congratulations you're a blessed man. May your joy love and commitment never fail.
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Post by art on Jul 31, 2008 16:48:37 GMT -5
Paynesean would be funny here, but he is deadly serious and this is scary. Me, I want to marry a sleeper.
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Post by Miles Lewis on Aug 3, 2008 21:53:19 GMT -5
That quote is horrible. No, you need to open every single door, even car doors, and carry her purse for her. Then will I say that you are a man. I made a deal with my wife that she would never touch a doorknob in my presence. Brother, Please, I would counsel you to ignore much of the advice you receive. My wife sews, knits, is a very good cook, and even wears a head covering, but none of that is at my command. In fact, she comes to me for advice on what to wear and things of that nature automatically. A domineering and heavy hand will ruin her and cause her to fear you in an unhealthy way. To command such things will only cause her to acquiesce out of duty rather than love. If you walk in holiness, and lay down your life for her just as Christ laid down His life for the church, then you will be truly be her sanctifier. Don't be an overbearing zealot, if she is sanctified she will automatically obey the Bible in these things. I haven't been married long, but in my study of the issue, and the little experience I have gained and learned from other Godly men, the deepest thing you must learn is to love her unconditionally. Paul Washer has wonderful teaching about marriage. Sermonindex carried his sermons on this topic and they are well worth listening to. Also Denny Kenaston's "Godly Home" series is a must. In fact, I would recommend Denny's above Paul Washer. But if you dont have time to listen to 15 or so sermons, take time out with your wive and listen to "The glory of God in marriage" by Washer. - Evan ApostolicHeritage.orgAmen my brother. I appreciate so much that you committed to studying your wife and learned/are learning to love her and cherish as godly men ought. I know sometimes while we were on the road it seemed to me almost like a distraction to be studying so much about marriage while we were also preaching on the campuses but I am rejoicing with you as I know all of the investing you put into marriage then is still yielding great fruit now and in the future. May God richly bless your marriage and make you to be the partakers of the grace of life. I love you brother. Blessings, Miles
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Post by kureji on Aug 15, 2008 21:29:31 GMT -5
paynesean I'm glad your wife isn't a floozy, keep her inside and don't let her see other men. It looks like you're doing good keeping her in the kitchen and teaching her how to sew and once you get her pregnant with your fifteen kids, make sure the only book that she uses to home school is the bible.
If she even dares to buy one of those biology books with that d**ned evolution in it, beat her mercilessly just as God intends it.
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Post by art on Aug 16, 2008 17:25:57 GMT -5
He ought to just chain her up in the basement and feed her raw meat now and again like in the horror movies. No wait, this guy doesn't watch horror movies. They are devilish.
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Post by kureji on Aug 16, 2008 19:34:53 GMT -5
silly art, if she's in the basement how can she cook dinner? chain her up in the kitchen where she belongs.
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Post by dale on Aug 16, 2008 21:04:09 GMT -5
Maybe he can get her to pull a plow and start a farm, you know, just hitch her up and say "Giddy up, old girl. Do it for Jesus."
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Post by kureji on Aug 17, 2008 10:28:48 GMT -5
nope thats what the children are for, she she pops out a child every nine months and after the children get to the ripe age of 5 they are sent to the fields knowing that if they don't harvest a full field of crop that the devil will come and get them in their sleep.
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Post by Evan Schaible on Aug 20, 2008 11:54:27 GMT -5
That quote is horrible. No, you need to open every single door, even car doors, and carry her purse for her. Then will I say that you are a man. I made a deal with my wife that she would never touch a doorknob in my presence. Brother, Please, I would counsel you to ignore much of the advice you receive. My wife sews, knits, is a very good cook, and even wears a head covering, but none of that is at my command. In fact, she comes to me for advice on what to wear and things of that nature automatically. A domineering and heavy hand will ruin her and cause her to fear you in an unhealthy way. To command such things will only cause her to acquiesce out of duty rather than love. If you walk in holiness, and lay down your life for her just as Christ laid down His life for the church, then you will be truly be her sanctifier. Don't be an overbearing zealot, if she is sanctified she will automatically obey the Bible in these things. I haven't been married long, but in my study of the issue, and the little experience I have gained and learned from other Godly men, the deepest thing you must learn is to love her unconditionally. Paul Washer has wonderful teaching about marriage. Sermonindex carried his sermons on this topic and they are well worth listening to. Also Denny Kenaston's "Godly Home" series is a must. In fact, I would recommend Denny's above Paul Washer. But if you dont have time to listen to 15 or so sermons, take time out with your wive and listen to "The glory of God in marriage" by Washer. - Evan ApostolicHeritage.orgAmen my brother. I appreciate so much that you committed to studying your wife and learned/are learning to love her and cherish as godly men ought. I know sometimes while we were on the road it seemed to me almost like a distraction to be studying so much about marriage while we were also preaching on the campuses but I am rejoicing with you as I know all of the investing you put into marriage then is still yielding great fruit now and in the future. May God richly bless your marriage and make you to be the partakers of the grace of life. I love you brother. Blessings, Miles Hey Miles. I just saw your post. I am not on the message boards too much any more being so busy with the ministry. I love you too dear brother. When are you going to come and visit us out here? I have a bed for you if you want to come and preach in LA. Let me know: Evan@ApostolicHeritage.org - Evan
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Post by kureji on Aug 20, 2008 17:03:12 GMT -5
I have a bed for you if you want to come and preach in LA. I have a filthy mind.
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Post by art on Aug 20, 2008 19:25:46 GMT -5
Man, if the Christians manage to get McCain elected, then he brings back the draft, I am out of here. I do not believe in God and do not love this country that much, so I might be up in Canada harrasing this Canadian guy. I wonder if I can make his wife cry. No wait, I doubt she will get to go with him as he street preaches. He'll have to keep her padlocked in the house you know, sewing, cooking and cleaning, while he is out getting his head handed to him by peopel who don't like his message or his signs. I will be right there harrassing him if I have to pack it to canada.
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Post by avidatheist on Aug 25, 2008 8:28:22 GMT -5
Is this Payne Guy for real or is he an atheist just spoofing you all!
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Post by dale on Sept 14, 2008 8:10:46 GMT -5
Oh no, this guy is definately a real whacko. Read some of his other posts or even funneir take his "Are you a monster?" test. On one hand, it is hilarious to read his posts but on another his fanaticism is frightening. One could swear the guy is related to Palin.
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Post by Rhema Seeker (Guy) on Sept 14, 2008 11:03:22 GMT -5
I hear you describing how your wife will conduct herself as a biblical wife and yet I have not heard anything from you how you will be a biblical husband. Off to a bad start I say.
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Post by dale on Sept 14, 2008 16:30:04 GMT -5
Interesting point, especially coming from a Christian. Curious if you will get an answer.
Ps. Love the sparrow
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Post by Rhema Seeker (Guy) on Sept 14, 2008 16:44:52 GMT -5
I am actually discouraged at being called a CHRISTIAN. Many call themselves CHRISTIANS. I would rather be called a FOLLOWER of JESUS CHRIST.
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Post by kureji on Sept 14, 2008 19:34:04 GMT -5
And hillbillies want to be called "Sons of the Soil," but it ain't gonna happen.
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Post by dale on Sept 19, 2008 13:14:58 GMT -5
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet. But using this same logic on the other hand, a skunk would still smell, even if called a rose.
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Post by Rhema Seeker (Guy) on Sept 19, 2008 22:52:53 GMT -5
A rose by any other name would smell as sweet. But using this same logic on the other hand, a skunk would still smell, even if called a rose. And I am truly a stinker. Thank God for the Rose of Sharon and HIS BEAUTIFUL GRACE WHOM has redeemed me from that evil stinker that I was. Only by HIS GRACE am I who I am.
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Post by dale on Sept 20, 2008 7:21:59 GMT -5
Man, I gave you the opportunity to jump on with that one, didn't I.
Incidently, if I lived in Louisiana I would probably be a Christian too, as the state has nothing else going for it.
Still love your Famous Sparrow Of Christ avatar .
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Post by evilart on Oct 18, 2008 17:51:13 GMT -5
So Paynesean, did you get divorced yet?
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Post by kureji on Oct 18, 2008 18:10:36 GMT -5
she tried to get a divorce, but he beat her with the bible until she changed her mind... Or until her arms and legs were broken and then she couldn't crawl away anymore. He was sad that he had to make himself dinner for a while.
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Post by dale on Oct 19, 2008 5:12:21 GMT -5
I'll give the marriage two years at best. This guy should have saved himself the trouble and just hooked up with an inflatable love doll.
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Post by fs on Oct 29, 2008 5:51:50 GMT -5
To the original poster, this is a horrible post. Are you sure you are a true Christian? You seem to have no understanding of The Bible, of love or of a relationship. You seem to speak of your wife like personal property. Slavery ended a long time ago, pal.
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Post by valentine on Oct 29, 2008 14:10:58 GMT -5
^ ....A fundie on this board that Valentine agrees with?
Well, miracles do happen.
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