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May 15, 2006 11:52:19 GMT -5
Post by Morluna on May 15, 2006 11:52:19 GMT -5
Maybe they're afraid to talk to their parents about it... I remember what it was like to be a teenager...
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May 15, 2006 12:22:16 GMT -5
Post by Grant on May 15, 2006 12:22:16 GMT -5
Morluna, Perhaps I missed it, but I haven't seen your response to my post to you. (sorry, don't know how to link to a specific post) If you don't have time, I understand... but figured you might have just missed the post. Thanks
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May 15, 2006 15:19:07 GMT -5
Post by Miles Lewis on May 15, 2006 15:19:07 GMT -5
I haven't quite figured out the other two, need to see a few more posts, but monochromatic was definitely a mocker.
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May 15, 2006 16:23:07 GMT -5
Post by ejuliot on May 15, 2006 16:23:07 GMT -5
I haven't quite figured out the other two, need to see a few more posts, but monochromatic was definitely a mocker. and a lucifarian (Satan worshiper)
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May 16, 2006 1:41:04 GMT -5
Post by godswarrier on May 16, 2006 1:41:04 GMT -5
I haven't quite figured out the other two, need to see a few more posts, but monochromatic was definitely a mocker. r u guys talking about me? why do u think im not a christian?
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May 16, 2006 2:32:30 GMT -5
Post by ejuliot on May 16, 2006 2:32:30 GMT -5
Sometimes people come on the boards and pretend to be people they aren't and that say silly things. We just couldn't tell because everyone seemed to be joking around. But if you are who you say you are you can post all you want. Welcome to the boards!
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May 16, 2006 2:35:46 GMT -5
Post by ejuliot on May 16, 2006 2:35:46 GMT -5
Goswarrior and Jojo4jesus (I think that is your name) if you want to get serious answers without jokes then you can private message me and ask me whatever you want. I will send each of you a message so you can reply.
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May 16, 2006 10:59:16 GMT -5
Post by wanderingtrekker on May 16, 2006 10:59:16 GMT -5
Hey girls, welcome to the boards. Sorry I was away, working all weekend. I just wanted to tell you that you should be careful when you are trying to be in a relationship. This world will take advantage of you if it can, and you will get hurt. I would advise taking it slowly, if your boyfriend really cares for you, he won't mind waiting until you are both ready. As for kissing, I see nothing wrong with that; I kiss my boyfriend all the time. Of course we are a bit older: I'm 21 and he's 23.
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May 16, 2006 14:09:52 GMT -5
Post by valentine on May 16, 2006 14:09:52 GMT -5
godswarrier and jojo4jesuz:
And here again, I'm trying to be fair and impartial in my Grammar Hammer--though I like you both and think you are sweet/well-meaning, you really need to learn to type with reasonable clarity. I can hardly understand your posts. This isn't an AIM chat and we'll all be able to answer your questions better if you clean up your writing.
That said, I am quite frightened to note that I find myself agreeing with the "bigots" (since they seem to have championed that term for themselves, I'll use it as a general reference unless they find that offensive), at least in part. Do not allow your boyfriend to pressure you into doing something you are not ready for, Sarah. JoJo, don't date just because everybody else is dating. I didn't until I was eighteen because I flat out wasn't ready and had no interest, and though I did feel like a freak at times, it was probably a good decision. However, I must dispute the belief that there is anything wrong with dating/kissing outside of marriage--I thought that was sort of the point of dating, to find out who you like/don't like and what kind of person you're looking for, but what do I know.
Talking to your parents is always a good plan but I definitely understand the desire to keep this private, because there are many things I'd be uncomfortable sharing with my parents. One piece of advice, though--don't take anyone's word as law. You have to go with what feels right for you, after much deliberation/research/questioning.
Good luck and welcome!
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May 17, 2006 14:50:36 GMT -5
Post by godswarrier on May 17, 2006 14:50:36 GMT -5
thanx valentine! u r nice.
i'm sorry if my spelling is bad sumtimes... im not very good at spelling...
"One piece of advice, though--don't take anyone's word as law. You have to go with what feels right for you, after much deliberation/research/questioning."
yea, i agree... i think its importent to think for yorself before making a deciscion like that. thanks for the advice!!!
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May 17, 2006 20:35:03 GMT -5
Post by Miles Lewis on May 17, 2006 20:35:03 GMT -5
"One piece of advice, though--don't take anyone's word as law. You have to go with what feels right for you, after much deliberation/research/questioning." yea, i agree... i think its important to think for yorself before making a deciscion like that. thanks for the advice!!! That can be awful advice. "If it feels right, do it?" We need to back up what we do with God's word as the authority. I will agree with the thinking part though, and the deliberation, research, questioning... Can you trust the word of God? Give this a listen (or anything from http://www.khouse.org) www.khouse.org/6640/BP084/Miles
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May 20, 2006 17:29:59 GMT -5
Post by jojo4jesuz on May 20, 2006 17:29:59 GMT -5
hey guyz, sorry that ive been away 4 awhile. i play the trumpet in band and ive been busy w/ practice n stuff. also my mom doesnt always let me and sarah get on the computer. so sumtimes we wont be able 2 answer all the stuff on this thing right away. plus we have to take turns!!!! ;D
so miles ur sayin that i should only do things that feel wrong?? cuz i have sum questions but i think i better ask them in anothar part of this site.
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May 20, 2006 17:44:11 GMT -5
Post by Kerrigan on May 20, 2006 17:44:11 GMT -5
I recommend that every single Christian read a book called, "When God Writes Your Love Story," by Eric and Leslie Ludy. It helped me a great deal when I was single and I know it will bless you and provide understanding for you as well. I was a Youth Pastor for about 4 years and I always recommended it to my kids...God Bless!
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May 21, 2006 1:26:01 GMT -5
Post by Miles Lewis on May 21, 2006 1:26:01 GMT -5
Just because something "feels" right, does not make it right. If we don't violate our conscience however, we should never feel wrong about the things we do. I stress the IF. Our conscience will agree with God's law.
I can even remember when I was in high school and a friend took a girl's virginity and he felt really really bad about it immediately after. Was it because he had lots of people telling him it was wrong? No. In fact, he heard from every angle how "cool" it was. His God - given conscience did not let him down though.
Miles
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